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Anonymous asked
Do you believe in asexuality? Just curious.
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I don’t think asexuality is like a faith thing, it’s just #science. Unless someone’s a douchebag and is into denying other ppls experiences.
I’m honestly surprised I don’t get more messages that just say ‘SHUT UP.’
y’know, a lot of people face some tough hurdles in their lives eg. the other morning I went to pour out some cereal for breakfast, but there wasn’t enough left, so I just didn’t eat it because I decided no cereal was better than not enough.
Anonymous asked
I'M SO UPSET BECAUSE CHUCK AND BLAIR
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like because they were a terrible couple and the worst thing to happen to television and how do the gossip girl writers sleep at night because just thinking about chuck and blair sends me into a blind rage kind of upset because i am RIGHT THERE WITH YOU
Anonymous asked
i'm afraid no one is ever going to want to fuck me
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god no like first of all, in the society we live in that like, that’s a legitimate fear- we’re taught to fear that so we act a certain way, dress a certain way- no matter your gender id, (if you have one) you’re trained to measure a certain portion of your self worth on how fuckable you are. So like, I’m not gonna tell you that you’re being silly, because not only is being desirable socially expected, it’s a largely natural human want, yknow? And I mean- I honestly can’t guarantee you that you’re going to have an excellent sex life, no one can! But the idea of not being fuckable- this is coming from the idea that there are certain traits or looks that are objectively attractive- that there’s some sort of universal checklist, whereas that bullshit is all just that; bullshit. But i don’t want to say that being fuckable doesnt matter, because what is or isn’t important to you is your business, and sex is great, being desired for whatever reason is great, so… What I DO want to say (i guess? this is a mess and idk what i want to say ever, let alone right now) is that someone wants to fuck you. they do. You are desirable to someone.
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the fact that boys don’t understand that I don’t give a single fuck whether they find 2 girls fucking hot or not continues to astound me every damn time. They always say that girls together are hot, as if their seal of approval is what I’ve been waiting for my entire life, and when I tell them that they can go fuck themselves, they’re always surprised????
i just saw a gif of liam and zayn with their tops off and burst out laughing because WHAT
Hello I would just like to say that tumblr has been really important to to me in terms of personal safety and also in the sense of learning more about people, coming into contact with people from (insert we are the world here) all walks of life and just generally not being an asshole -because let’s be real we’re all assholes a lot of the time- and there have been a lot of people who are still assholes, a lot of people whose individual happiness is more important to them than others, and I get that- whether it’s someone you know or someone you feel like you know- but there’s also a lot I don’t agree with. A lot of decisions and behaviours I can’t understand, I can’t accept without commenting. But you can disagree. And I guess that’s the awesome thing about being human. We believe and disagree and fight and love and whether we agree or disagree we still /do/. Because we are. And we can be influenced but at the end of it, we are who we are. And my opinion of you… It doesn’t matter. And your power, in that moment- on that time where an outside force does not mean a single fuck. Is pretty fucking awesome. I may not love you, but I love your ability to be loved. And your ability to not be loved.
